Sex Fantasy Tips for Women
We’ve all heard that adding variety is the solution to a stale sex life. Let’s be honest though. There are only so many variations on the basic positions – and the idea of having sex while upside down isn’t exactly every girl’s cup of tea.
There are also only so many places where most women typically feel comfortable having sex. I don’t know about you, but joining the mile-high club isn’t an option for me. It sounds thrilling in theory, but when were you last actually in a plane loo? Trust me. Plane loos aren’t somewhere you want to hang around, much less grovel in!
The solution? Play the sex fantasy game.
Exploring fantasies keeps things fresh and exciting. Fantasies are limited only by you and your partner’s imaginations, meaning that you can bring something new to the table (be it kitchen, dining room or billiards) every night.
How to Play: Sex Fantasy Tips for Women
The idea may appeal to you, but how do you actually work up the nerve to suggest acting out each others’ sexual fantasies to your partner?
Here are some suggestions for getting things going:
- Encourage your partner to write down an explicit sexual fantasy. Fold it up and promise not to read it until you’re on your way home from work tomorrow. It’s likely that you’ll both be in for an interesting evening.
- Introduce the idea of acting out your sexual fantasies slowly, with subtle hints. Be careful that you don’t make your partner feel you’re criticising him though. Start by finding out what he thinks would make things more exciting for him.
- Talk about your sexual fantasies just after having sex, when you’re both relaxed and not shy with one another. Next time the mood is right, you’ll both be remembering each others’ ideas and you’ll be less embarrassed to give them a try.
Venus versus Mars
In sex, most men respond to visual stimuli. Women generally use a bit more imagination.
For pleasing the man who joins you in playing the sex fantasy game, this is where props come in handy. Forking out for a nurse’s uniform or a French maid outfit may not be your style, but if you add any small, unexpected touch, it’s likely to go a long way. For a school girl, just a shirt and one of his ties. For the classic French maid, an apron and a feather duster!
A sex fantasy tip for women is to read steamy erotic fiction. Try getting your partner to read to you. You’re sure to find it funny, but it will get things going.
Sex Fantasy Ideas for Women
The ideas are up to you, but here are some adventurous sex fantasy tips for women that are bound to add spice to your sex life:
Turn the table on the typical school girl fantasy. You’re the strict school teacher and he’s a shy teenager. Take control – many men find this incredibly sexy because women so often play the less dominant role in sex. Apply the same logic to the stereotypical doctor/nurse fantasy. You play the doctor.
Arrange to meet at a new place such as a coffee shop or a pub. When you meet, pretend that you’re complete strangers. Act the part – change your name and your look. Start with polite small talk and progress to serious flirting. Work your way to a “one night stand” with your partner, preferably somewhere other than at home.
Star in your own sex movie. He’s the director and he has a camera. Then you’re the director and you have the camera. An automatic flash feature is a good idea, but do yourself a favour and make sure that the camera doesn’t actually have film in it!
After you’ve used our sex fantasy tips for women and had the most exciting sex ever, you and your partner should stay close and talk, as yourselves. You may find that’s a lot easier than it has been recently.