Female Orgasm Tips for Women
Some women find it extremely easy to orgasm and can typically do so within minutes, and others reach orgasm only after prolonged stimulation. Whereas in the past it was a common perception that female orgasm could occur as a result of vaginal penetration only, it’s now known that the clitoris plays the main role.
In 2005, a Royal Society journal published the twin study finding that out of 4000 women, about one in three, never or very seldom achieved orgasm during intercourse. Conversely, studies and a number of surveys have shown that women who masturbate almost always achieve orgasm.
See G-spot tips for women for a discussion of the controversial G-spot in female orgasm.
Female orgasm tips for women with partners include:
- Ensuring that you’re relaxed and comfortable, and fantasising about something stimulating long before any actual sexual contact occurs
- Relieving the pressure involved (for both of you) in trying to achieve orgasm, and instead concentrating on the pleasure associated with touching and exploring, all over the body
ensuring that you’re highly aroused before actual stimulation of the genital area starts
- During intercourse, using sexual positions that provide the most clitoral stimulation
Making Orgasms More Powerful
The best of the female orgasm tips for women is to use the “stop and go” – or “edging” – technique. The aim of this technique is to make the pleasurable sensations that come just before actual orgasm occurs last as long as possible, finally resulting in an extremely powerful orgasm.
The basic idea is that you or your partner uses very slow, gentle stimulation until you’re very highly aroused. Then you or your partner stops completely, starting again only once further touch won’t immediately trigger orgasm. This may be repeated many times, until your urge to orgasm is overwhelming. Then it’s usually best to increase the strength or frequency of the stimulation. However, even the lightest touch, without any movement, may be enough to trigger powerful orgasm at this stage.
It’s easy to practice this during self-stimulation, but tricky for a partner to get just right. Too much gentle stimulation for too long and you’re likely to “tip” into orgasm – which is unlikely to be as satisfying without slightly harder stroking in the last few seconds. Too little stimulation and the feeling will be much less intense. If your partner knows you and the way your body reacts extremely well, the technique is much more likely to succeed.