G-Spot Tips for Women
The G-Spot: Fact or Fiction?
Many best-selling books and magazines take the existence of the G-spot for granted. However, scientists aren’t so sure. According to scientists, the G-spot may exist, may not exist, or may exist only in some women. One theory is that the G-spot is like the female equivalent of the male prostate, but debate about this continues.
That’s not to say that stimulation to the relevant part of the vaginal wall can’t be pleasurable for women. But the G-spot as an isolated area that can cause female orgasm on its own – or that can even cause “female ejaculation” – is widely debated.
If you find your G-spot and it lives up to the hype, that’s wonderful. If not, surveys show you’re not alone!
So Where Is It, Anyway?
The G-spot is an area about the size of a small coin – bigger when you’re sexually aroused – on the inside, front wall of the vagina. It’s the bit that feels rather rough, rather than smooth like the rest of the vaginal wall.
At least for some women, stroking this spot gives sexual pleasure and may lead to – or at least contribute to – orgasm. It’s important that you’re sexually aroused first though.
For other women, this type of touch just creates a feeling of needing to pee!
G-spot tips for women:
- Whether it’s you or your partner, stroke the area with one finger, using a repeated “come hither” motion. Don’t be too rough at first.
- Empty your bladder before stimulation of your G-spot, to help avoid the possible “need to pee” reaction.
- During intercourse, have him penetrate you from behind (doggy-style or with you standing and bent over a counter, for instance) or with your pelvis raised on a cushion. You’re much more likely to feel friction on your G-spot in these positions.
- See sex toys for women – you can experiment with your G-spot using toys like a vibrator.
Even if the G-spot is sometimes over-rated, experimenting with it may add an extra dimension to your enjoyment of sex. If the G-spot tips for women don’t do it for you, move on! Plenty of other areas on your body can also be erogenous zones – and you definitely don’t need to find a G-spot to have great, orgasmic sex.